If you're an Asian dude that wants to find out how to date that white woman at the mall, then get in line. As an Asian male born and bred in California I've noticed the complaining through the years. I know how it is, because I used to be a complainer. A few years ago I noticed that a few of my Asian friends and relatives would be attracting and dating white girls constantly. They weren't rich or good-looking, but they had a certain aura about themselves that separated them from the rest.
Confidence - Whether you're "fresh off the boat", short or ugly, confidence will take you a long way. It's probably all you need. I'm not talking about being cocky or arrogant, but just a steady inner confidence.
Social - Do you make attempts to be friendly or do you just hang out with the same Asian crew. Say hello and thank you, ask people about themselves etc. Don't have that same serious Asian triad gangster look. You might be a gangster but you're not tough because white girls make you nervous.
Assimilation - White women are mostly westernized so you need to make an effort to assimilate yourself. I'll tell you one thing for sure. Looking like a Taiwanese pop star might get you some tail in the motherland but not in the U.S.
Stop whining - Man, if I would have to pinpoint one setback Asians have is all the whining they spit. How they've been dealt a bad hand in the dating world etc. I could go on with this but it just upsets me too much. From a more primal core, whining men in general disgust women. If you want to be a girlfriend, be my guess.
In my opinion, being Asian is such an advantage because I come in under the radar constantly. And since a lot of Asian guys will still be stuck in their own world, the competition is low. Yea, I'm talking about you.
I'm 5'8" at best and 140 lbs, so I can't be mistaken for a model and I have picked up hot white girls from the hottest clubs in Hollywood to Barcelona. I'm not going to go into any game theory because you can find a lot of that stuff online, but what I am going to show you are how to suck a girl into your Asian world.
Now I'm not saying that you should transform yourself into a white boy, but I would highly suggest to stay away from your dropped Honda, highlighted hair or your Korean American college club. Stick with the adventurous basics...food and Travel.
You can qualify a girl by asking her if she's been with an Asian man before, if she's a sushi fan or if she's traveled to Asian before. If she reacts positively to your qualifications, whether she answers yes or no, you got yourself a winner.
Learning to go for a kiss or conveying your sexuality seems to be a problem for Asian men. Just have a backbone and go for it. If it doesn't work out, make it seem like it wasn't a big deal.