How can you, a small, skinny Asian man, date that attractive white woman you always notice working at the mall? Man, she even works at the lingerie section and she's tall. Talk about intimidating!
It doesn't matter if she's interested in you or not. Because you're an UNAPOLOGETIC FLIRT...you get that? Asian men have been complaining lately at their lack of opportunities in the dating world.
With statements like that, maybe you are! A common misconception with Asian men who want to have a better dating situation is that they need a set of linear steps from getting from point A to point B. Wrong.
Socialize with everyone: Sounds easy, but most men reading this can't even make small talk with an UNATTRACTIVE woman. You should socialize as much as possible until you make it a habit.
Speech: For some reason a lot of asian guys talk too fast. It's annoying and projects insecurity. Slow down and pause once in awhile.
I'm sure you've heard about chin up, back straight, feet apart. If you're a gangster smile a little more and if you have a permagrin, smile less.
Escalate: Here is a biggie...escalation. Ask for the number; ask if she's single, go for the kiss. That's escalation. There is no other way around it. No fidgeting or circling around the fact. You must escalate.
Flow: I'm going to come back to what I said earlier. Become an unapologetic flirt. Flirting has been a dance that has been played out with every species of animal throughout time. Don't apologize, have fun and go with the flow.
If you haven't picked it up yet, there is no special technique with attracting white women specifically. What you need to work on is being an attractive man all of the time. And it's not your muscles or the car you drive. It's in your head - the sticking point in your dateless life. As an asian man myself who has been in your shoes..I know exactly what it's like. So how bad do you want it? Making a change in your life will be tough and the journey will be long.
You will lose your friends who are holding you back and will make some new ones who will push you forward. Fortunately, there are Asian men out there who are absolute masters at attracting women. You know who these guys are. These are the guys who people look at when they walk into a room with a white girlfriend. These are the guys who other men get jealous of. These are the guys who make other women wonder. And these are the guys you should surround yourself with.