In my opinion, being Asian in the dating world is such a BIG advantage. Females don't see me coming. Unfortunately, most Asians don't see it that way. It's pretty common to see Asian females with Caucasian males, but it's rare to see Asian men dating white women. Is that a cause for concern? Are Asian men really at a disadvantage?
After traveling the world, I have noticed that Asian men in the United States have a bigger mental hang-up than Asian men in Europe, where I have seen more Asian men in interracial relationships. But I have also seen that there is a small group of Asian men in the United States that have no problems dating women from other races.
Women are attracted to confidence, which might be the reason why Asians can't seem to get off the ground in the dating world. A negative mindset does breed negative results and if you want to change your results as an Asian man, then you must change your attitude. Studies have shown that on Internet dating sites, Asian males are the least desirable of mates. Many Asian males reading that will be crushed - probably for life.
Is it a cultural issue? I've heard that Asian culture conflicts with the Western way of life and thus disrupting the dating balance for Asians abroad. But like I said earlier, it's not like that in Europe. If you do a little investigating online, a common theme that comes up with European Asians is how rough it is to be Asian in the United States.
Stop being shy. This is a huge barrier that probably is cultural. I don't really know, nor do I really care. White westernized females are independent and relatively social. A quiet man will never get noticed. Learn how to open up and socialize in your surroundings. Talking in a relaxed friendly tone is a good, but difficult first learning step for most shy men. Practice your socializing skills in everyday situations, like when you're buying coffee. It really doesn't matter if you're talking to a male or female. The harder it is, the more work you need. Just stay positive and keep going.
Some of you guys aren't shy in normal situations, but when it comes to conversing with attractive women outside your race, it all goes down hill. Your heart races and your palms sweat. You want to say something but time just stops.
That should not be a problem for any man. If you're honest with yourself and you want to make a lifestyle change - then face your fears and make some moves. Time is ticking and only a few of you will get past this step, the rest of you will run into this article a couple of years from now and be in the same situation. Never doubt that you will one day "make it". It's all about thinking positively and experiencing first hand how other Asian men who have succeeded in breaking all kinds of barriers. They're out there and they're taking all of the glory. Don't believe me? Go find out for yourself below.